The video I posted is a talk about a study on sexual regret. Women have greater regret about casual sexual encounters, which is understandable because they have a much greater risk if things go wrong then men do.

The problem is that regret has no correlation with future behavior. Regretting a bad thing you did in the past should lead to less of it in the future, this is not the cast. Women keep having casual sexual relationships and regretting them, but not changing their behavior.

So 1) If she says she has a past but regrets it, has changed… don’t believe it. Change is possible but don’t believe it just because she says it.

2. Women are self-destructing right now. Big time.

So lets take a smart woman who is admirable (I know a few of them). She is capable, witty, energetic. She is all the things. What is she going to do with that? The secret that men know, work doesn’t care about you. Your work buddies quit being your buddies when you retire. It is with rare exception that people keep life long friends, because life is busy and hard.

If she doesn’t have kids - all that beauty and wisdom that she has built is flushed right down the crapper. All of her genes are gone, she has committed genetic suicide.

This is true for men as well, but we don’t have the choice to have children. For most of history most men didn’t have families, we just dug ditches and died in pointless wars. Genetic death is built in to our calculations for how we live. I don’t think that women have any real of this concept because they have never had to deal with this before. Men don’t really get a choice, women do have that choice. Why would you choose eternal death? Have kids, make better people than the crap that is out running the street today. Love them and sacrifice for them and you will have 2 generations of people that give a crap about you, plus your wisdom and beauty will out live you.