After “someone” bullied her. LOL.

    • AliceMA
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      6 months ago

      Some dum bitch on nostr.

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          6 months ago

          She is one user who uses communities or was any way. So it was me, her, splinter, gray, and a few others using them.

          Anyway, I have a women’s fashion community on nostr that she posted in.

          I was taking a break from nostr, still kinda am. And she ended up posting asking for me to check my mentions, another post telling me ‘that it’s time for me to consider adding moderators’ to that community or some shit.

          And then another post asking the community what she should do. If she should create another fashion community. Because she doesn’t want to duplicate a community.

          Really quick here, she’s always rubbed me the wrong way. On one post about the way communities work on nostr, I replied by saying that show the note in the feed as well as in the community takes away any incentive for people to use communities.

          And that it defeats the purpose. She ended up replying something nasty, and proudly stated How she thinks it’s brilliant how community post show in the feed and also the community BECAUSE IF YOUR POST DOESN’T GET APPROVED PEOPLE WILL STILL SEE IT

          She then went on to say how I have the most “popular” ppl blocked or some shit and said some other bitchy things. I didn’t engage with that because I knew she was trying to start a petty argument.

          And I’ve never acknowledged her. She’s not important in my opinion. There are other users who suck her dick, and I don’t do that. She’s irrelevant in my opinion.

          Back to those posts she made that I mentioned in the beginning. I didn’t see those post before I invited her here to this instance. I saw those after I invited her.

          After she got my direct message, I see a post in the feed saying, “I’ve just got confirmation that some of the moderators have left the stage” and a bunch of other passive aggressive rude shit.

          That was enough. It pissed me off and I responded with what’s in that screen shot here in the comment thread.

          No one calls that dumb bitch out. She’s grown ass woman bitching about how I didn’t tend to her needs?

          I’m sorry, you’re a no one girl. I don’t fucking answer to you. Do you get where I’m coming from Donkey? It’s a social media site, I’m tending to my life.

          I mean who do you think you are?

          I also think it’s kinda funny how I seem to be the only moderator she’s got a problem with.

          I was so pissed, I took the picture she posted of herself and made a video of her saying shit and edited it onto fat women bodies.

          I told her that, and that if she doesn’t shut the fuck up I will post it.

          And that was it.

  • AliceMA
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    6 months ago

    How do you feel about it?

    • HermanOP
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      6 months ago

      Not a big deal to me. I unfollowed when she went on to a bunch of relays that I wasn’t connected to so most of her posts weren’t showing up for me at the time. Even before that she was mildly irking me as being somewhere between fake and delusional which is weird when you post your face.

      • AliceMA
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        6 months ago

        You’ve got a good instinct on you. Because that’s what I thought as well.

        She was rubbing me the wrong way when she would kinda get bitchey with other people.

        She instigated a lot. Idk just didn’t feel right. Then she started thumbing down some of my posts that weren’t opinionated about anything.

        So I was like oh, ok, I see.

        AND THEN. She made a post asking for me to check my mentions? That I need to reevaluate moderation or something and then another post about that she doesn’t want to duplicate a community because I haven’t approved her post yet.

        Anyway I didn’t see any of that yet. Before I invited her to hear to this instance.

        I saw all that after I had invited her here. And then she makes a post saying that she just got confirmation that the moderators have left the stage and that’s just when I went off on her I just thought that was kind of ridiculous. I mean dude like I have a life and I’m not the one who set up the moderation the way it is that’s the developers dude not my f****** problem.

        I mean what about now you’re abandoning your communities and not moderating anymore? I mean Jesus somebody call the police she’s not moderating her communities just stupid f****** dumb ridiculous stuff.

        I don’t answer to you b**** I don’t answer to anybody that’s what really pissed me off. I mean who the f*** do you think you are? Sorry that’s really got on my nerves and I had to say something at that point.

  • AliceMA
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    6 months ago

    Man, fuck that bitch. I’m so glad I called her ass out.

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        6 months ago

        Well I mean dam!

        I got shit going on in my personal life, and then someone bitching at me online because I’m taking care of my priorities and not catering to them?

        Are you kidding?

        Done got me fucked up

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    6 months ago

    Do we know what happened? Who bullied her?

    • HermanOP
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      6 months ago

      I’m guessing after reading the rest of the posts in this thread you’ve probably got an inkling.

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        6 months ago

        Nah surely it can’t have been over that, you reckon?

        You think Alice cut her so deep that she never recovered? 🤣

        I figured it must’ve been something else

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          6 months ago

          Literally the last thread she posted was directly @ Alice. She still replies to a few things here and there. I had seen it and assumed that’s why but it was only when she specifically said she was bullied off nostr that I posted it here because I knew Alice would enjoy it.

          • AliceMA
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            6 months ago

            She’s still talking shit? I wrote her that and a few other replies and let it go.

            I saw her in global talking about something I don’t even remember. Something not about this obviously.

            And just rolled my eyes and kept scrolling.

            I don’t go on nostr that much like I use too. But to sit there and like bully her on the daily? Yea im not that petty and I don’t have time for that shit.

            My only assumption is that she clearly pissed someone else off really bad, and now she’s getting shit for it?

            I’m really wondering who it is.

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            6 months ago

            And I did enjoy it thank you lol

          • splinterA
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            6 months ago

            Shit that’s hilarious, I haven’t really been paying attention to Nostr since we started HC so I hadn’t noticed she didn’t post anymore since then. I think it’s funny because Alice just called her out (admittedly she did savage her a bit), but it’s not like she started following her around or being mean to her everywhere or whatever.

            It’s a good thing Alice never posted the video she made, who knows what damage that could’ve done lol

              • AliceMA
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                6 months ago

                I didn’t post it.

                It’s pretty fucking terrible, I feel kinda bad about it so yea.

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                6 months ago

                🤣 If you thought the posts had teeth, the video was something else.

                It was genuinely mean, it’s probably for the best that it never gets on the Internet

                • AliceMA
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                  6 months ago

                  Half way through doing it, I wasn’t even that mad anymore lol

                  I was running out of fucked up things to even say lol cause I’m not vicious like that.

                  I was like, man, why the fuck am I doing this shit lol can’t believe I wasted my time doing that.