• j4k3@lemmy.world
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    Alice, it might be the config of .world or that of hilarious chaos, but your posts tend to dump onto .world in batches. I think it is why you tend to get a negative reply from here or lack of some engagement. Just a heads up if you’re not aware. I know there are some issues with connections between .world and the other servers, and it might be unfixable at the moment. I am simply mentioning it because you seem to be putting considerable effort into boosting participation, and I want to say thanks.

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      Oh thank you for letting me know ! I really appreciate that, that is very kind and thoughtful of you! 😃

      I’ll relay the message to our server admin so they can check it out on our end. When you say batches, do you mean duplicate posts? So you’re getting double of the same post?

      Or do you mean, multiple posts coming from one community at a time ? (Which is what I think you mean) dropped all at once?

      Either way, I’ll get with them. I appreciate you taking the time to let me know. That’s very thoughtful and you didn’t have to, so yea, thank you ! 😃

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        It is like 4-8 posts that come onto the All feed at the same time dear. It is all your posts across various communities. They show up at the same time stamp on the .world feed. It looks kinda like if you were a badly configured not that has scraped the internet, collected articles and then posts them all at the same time. At first I thought this is what you might be doing. I don’t mind, I’m happy for someone that cares enough to post. I noticed you had some toxic looking commenters in the past, so I’ve tried to engage more to push in the other direction. It seems there is a similar periodicity to your replies at times, but I do not claim to know when you are on and replying or anything. There have been a few times when you’ve engaged within minutes of a comment from me, but usually there is a longer delay, and I do not recall us having a real relayed conversion at random with a back and forth within 1-2 hours. This anomaly could be due to many factors and is highly speculative on my part. To me, there seems to be a pattern that is looking more likely over time.

        Time stamp of this message: Sat Jul 20 16:45:10 2024 UTC

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          4 months ago

          I mean? You can always just dm me if you want.

          I’m gunna level with you,

          Lemmy is toxic asf. Negative, political extremism all over the place, and no one wants to talk about anything other then politics on here.

          So…yea…

          I need a break from that shit sometimes. I currently have 118 fuckin notifications. I’m sure some of those, are people being dicks. And I’ve got to be in the mood to deal with that. So yes, sometimes (usually at the beginning of first logging in)

          Lemmy is fun 🙌 but then the toxicity real just seeps in after that, and that’s when I’ve had about enough and log out. When my notifications are low, it’s easier to have a dialog. But when they’re piled up, you won’t hear from me as fast.

          Anyway

          I Pretty much figured it’s not a technical issue. I think someone on your end is probably just getting personally annoyed with my blowing up the feed. If that’s the case, that’s fine, buy instead of dressing it up like a tech issue at least just be honest about that.

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            Use your block features dear. There are only a handful of toxic people on here. You’ve got to block all the psyops political stuff and try not to let that stuff get under your skin.

            Nothing I’m saying is passive aggressive or trying to be negative/critical. I’m simply trying to help. I’m disabled and this is like my public commons. I try to treat people just like I would in real life. My pain creeps up on me in a way that is hard for me to detect effectively. It is like a fatigue tension that is effects my sleep and is always present. I can be an old grouchy pain in the ass when I’m at my worst. There are times when I just have to go curl up in a ball for a day or few, but even at my worst, I mean no harm to anyone.

            I care that you’re here and putting in some effort. I have no further pretense or personal bias.

            When people really bug me in places like this, I usually go read some science fiction, bit that is me. You do you. Have a pleasant day or evening, I demand it!