• Lovstuhagen
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    22 days ago

    I understand the decision - particularly if the job wasn’t great.

    Sometimes the universe sends you a sign to move on.

    • Kendra OP
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      22 days ago

      I wasn’t really… attracted to him

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        22 days ago

        Whatever, casual sex happens, sometimes with people you wouldn’t normally fuck. I don’t mean to criticize you or anything. Just saying, sounds like no big deal to me.

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          22 days ago

          I mean yea, true. But it was more out of a sense of obligation if anything not really bc I wanted to

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            21 days ago

            I think… this is a way too common experience, so you are definitely not alone in it. We also can’t undo the past… So we just have to move forward and take measures to make it not happen again, right… But put all that on the back burner.

            You deserve to unwind & have a great few weeks. You can really only grow and make a change when you are in a mentally good place and well rested, so like… prioritize your relaxation and lean on your friends & family. Not necessarily for advice or for some BIG REVEAL…! of your bad situation or anything, but for the joy and comfort that they bring.

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    21 days ago

    I worked at a pizza place where all the supervisors (myself included) had sex (not with each other) in the bosses chair. That thing was festooned in gentleman’s relish.