In this video, I discuss seven important lessons I've learned since leaving behind my faith and the Christian church. What have you learned since you left? *Please keep in mind that all everything I say here is my subjective opinion, and is intended to deconstruct fundamentalist/evangelical/conservative Christian ideologies from an ex christian perspective* 00:29 | The world isn't black and white 01:27 | If god wanted to be found, I would have found them 05:11 | It's okay to say "I don't know" 07:47 | Love does not threaten or condemn 10:51 | Your feelings do matter 13:48 | Faith is not a virtue 15:24 | Introspection builds compassion 5 Bible Passages that caused me to lose my faith | https://youtu.be/gDCCzzwy_Nk?si=GgmE_e2qIH97PJcC Ex-Christian Deconstruction Reading List | https://www.goodreads.com/review/list/146949852-kristi-burke?shelf=ex-christian-deconstruction Check out my merch | https://www.Jezebelvibes.com/shop Need resources for religious trauma? Visit Recovering From Religion | https://www.recoveringfromreligion.org/ Outro Music | "Pixels" by Jeff Kaale tags | Ex christian, deconstructing christianity, exvangelical, former fundie, leaving christianity, gospels, jesus, bible, god, christian, evangelism, apologist, atheist vs christian, agnostic, recovering from religion