https://privacy.thenexus.today/free-fediverses-and-consent/

Seriously? You dumb fucks defederate and Ban everyone you don’t agree with. Why the fuck should we (hypothetical speaking) federate with you?

No. You don’t get to have a chance to talk shit and spread a bad name. You either like us and join, don’t like us and don’t join, or it didn’t work out and you delete your fucking account.

Yall only want things your way. We fucking know that so of what benefit is it to us, to federate with your sorry asses?

I’m fucking so happy you don’t get to sample us for free. And try to boss us around so you can feel like somebody because your life sucks dick.

You ain’t cool if you ain’t here. And only cool peeps are invited.

You exe yourself out with your fucking ideology and outrage porn. No thank you, we’re not interested :D

Go circle jerk

  • airrow
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    5
    ·
    9 months ago

    at the end of the day a lot of people just want to complain

    on the one hand when they’re censored, it’s too much censorship, on the other hand when they’re the ones censoring, there’s too much “protectionism” LOL

    • AliceOPMA
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      3
      ·
      9 months ago

      True. What do you think is a good solution I guess

  • gray
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    4
    ·
    9 months ago

    The free fediverse should be free. These crybaby fags can’t handle seeing things they don’t like and ignoring it or blocking on the individual level. They need some power hungry janitor who was picked on in high school to hold their hands for them and make every decision about which users and instances are bad.

    The idea of free speech or freedom is abhorrent to them.

    “Consent based” lol fuck off.

    • AliceOPMA
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      3
      ·
      9 months ago

      I thought I was going crazy for a second thank you. I find it absolutely fucking hilarious, that they are trying to frame it as ‘protected’ instances.

      In a sense, it is true in the example of one particular lemmy instance.

      They wanted a safe space. LITERALLY so they defederated most instances. If not all of them if I’m not mistaken.

      But in my view, you’re first saying that if we don’t share we should not use federated platforms at all.

      But then when we do share they cause drama, brigade, defame, ban and call for defederation.

      The fediverse is now working how they’ve designed it.

      But somehow we are in the wrong for not connecting to them when they will do all of what I just mentioned if we did what they asked and federated.

      What they want to do, is police everything. They don’t like the fact that we can electively isolate from them and only invite people who will actually fit in here.

      The nerve dude. You know sometimes this shit really pisses me off which is dumb.

      I think imma go do something else for 20 minutes. Lol jeeze laweez

      • gray
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        3
        ·
        9 months ago

        I’m pretty sure these people think blocking actually silences other instance instead of just hiding responses from them. I don’t think they understand that everyone can still see their posts.

        The fediverse is the absolute worse place you can go for safety or privacy. The fact that an instance admin can read your DMs should be enough to put anyone who cares about privacy off the platform.

        Honestly these people should just log off the internet completely and get a life.

        • AliceOPMA
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          2
          ·
          9 months ago

          It’s weird because for you and me and others, we know this. It’s weird to think that they don’t.

          I’ve seen some of their conversations about privacy. What’s crazy is there are the obvious "if you don’t like your stuff being read, don’t ever post on the internet " which are obviously, admins. I mean, cmon.

          And there are others who are very concerned about it.

          What kinda cracks me up. Is the safety you get from being DDOSd and other internet attacks ALONG WITH PRIVACY.

          ALL OF THAT COMES FROM CENTRALIZED SOCIAL MEDIA

          You really think some jack offs in their basement give a fuck about your privacy? NO. Because they don’t legally have to.

          Pardon my ignorance, but big tech on the other hand has to

          Idc what anyone says, if there were something like NOSTR but centralized? And they didn’t fucking ban everyone who thinks differently?

          I’d use it.

          Fediverse is a trick in most cases in my opinion for mentally ill people to feel some sense of power by snooping on other people’s shit.

          I agree with you

          • gray
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            2
            ·
            9 months ago

            Seeing how some of those admins on there act I wouldn’t be the least bit surprised if they went through your DMs if you pissed them off.

            • AliceOPMA
              link
              fedilink
              English
              arrow-up
              2
              ·
              edit-2
              9 months ago

              I mean of course they would man I’m pretty sure they just do that on the regular anyways they there’s an option in Lemmy where admins can edit and change direct messages posts and comments from their users on their instance I mean just Google it. Or you can see the s*** they say in The Matrix chat which is f****** Wild. it’s like all they Care about

  • splinterA
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    3
    ·
    9 months ago

    It really is hilarious. If you federate, they want to defederate you. If you don’t federate, they complain about your “protectionism”.

    It’s just weak people who desperately want to feel powerful. They only have power if you care about what they can do.

    • gray
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      3
      ·
      9 months ago

      People like the poster on there are already so well wrapped up in their hug box they don’t that there is a whole other side of free and open fediverse I think. The fediverse is already split up into tribes and it’s all the fault of the crybabies who can’t handle people posting things they don’t like.

      • splinterA
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        3
        ·
        8 months ago

        I agree, I think it’s ultimately a symptom of people who don’t have any real problems, so they try to find them in the dumbest of places.

        A kind of Smolett, if you will.

  • Lovstuhagen
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    3
    ·
    9 months ago

    I was actually happy that like… You’d see these 1 in 20 opinions over there of people trying to defend mass federation by default, and they were not always voted into the ground, so I want to give them the benefit of the doubt: there were guys liek Casey Rollins who believe in free speech, and that the answer to bad speech is for it to just be criticized or ignored…

    It’s really a massive failure that they could not see this.

    They did not even make an attempt at a fair negotiation for federation, like, “Just don’t do CRAZY hardcore anti-trans memes and zero racial slurs, OK? Can we try for that?”

    it was always just the mere existence of criticism of their agenda merited full on bans.

    • AliceOPMA
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      3
      ·
      9 months ago

      Casey Rollins sounds so familiar, who is that?

      "They did not even make an attempt at a fair negotiation for federation, "

      Well, that’s a logical thinking person (you lol) they don’t or are not capable of that.

      Meeting in the middle. Because they don’t want to. This is what gets on my nerves about ppl like this.

      Because I’m open to say fuck it, how can we coexist, and they pretend to want that, and just flat out shut anything down that doesn’t kiss their ass and confirm their ideology.

      I also feel people like that haven’t moved out of where they live or traveled at all not even in the united states. Because when you’re around different cultures and different areas in the US you know and then also let’s mention classism you could be of the same race and experience classism I mean come on that’s the thing.

      I mean there’s all kinds of s*** going on and for people to be that hard pressed to think only one way and it’s group think if you agree you’re you’re with us and if you don’t you’re wrong and you’re racist I mean that just shows you how

      small-minded and ignorant they are people who are well versed and s*** and have been exposed to different things throughout their life don’t think that way they’re more apt to help you and listen and meet you in the middle.

      These are just spoiled brats that want to get their way and they don’t even really know what what the reason is they’re just bitching on the internet

      • Lovstuhagen
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        2
        ·
        8 months ago

        He posted seldomly on EH, at one point having a news forum of his own. On Wolfballs, he posted more frequently in the very beginning but progressively fell off, I think completely leaving it after the charliebrownau saga.

          • Lovstuhagen
            link
            fedilink
            English
            arrow-up
            2
            ·
            8 months ago

            Maybe it is - at first I was skeptical because he seemd to blend in so well in general with the leftoids on Lemmy. My guess is that he really changes the way he engages with them in those spaces and only flies his freak flag over on Gab, though it’s certainly the case he supported some libertarian principles before them all over there.

            • AliceOPMA
              link
              fedilink
              English
              arrow-up
              2
              ·
              8 months ago

              Ah interesting I didn’t know that

        • AliceOPMA
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          2
          ·
          8 months ago

          Crazy! Imma try to find him lol