I don’t think I’ve spoken to a woman on Tinder who is actually interested in dating. The majority of them don’t ever reply, the few that do put zero effort into the conversation and often just want money. Once in a while a woman agrees to meet then just doesn’t. What the actual fuck? How do you guys handle this bullshit?
Before I get called an incel 1000 times, I am already doing everything right. I’m in therapy, I exercise every day, I eat healthy, I have diverse interests and several friends. I have paid people to review my profile and conversations and everyone agrees I am doing everything right.
It’s difficult to gain confidence and self esteem while constantly being shot down by women.
Dating apps aren’t helping at all. But what other option is there?
It was tough because for me I was into a lot of things where I would just never meet women.
Super Smash Brother? Never met a woman Magic the Gathering? Same Rec baseball? Same
For me it was getting into coed softball, but there are other sports if you didnt play baseball growing up.
Some areas have coed kickball in the evenings and people are holding beers while playing it’s basically just a big social thing. There are organizations like MySocialSports that organize those things.
I know a guy who met a girl playing in pool leagues.
You could try Meetup, there are organized singles events on there.
I have the same problem where women aren’t interested in anything I do. It feels wrong to change myself and my interests just to appeal to women.