• Asherah@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    Well, as someone who’s been through it, I’d really hope you of all people would understand the fucking importance of consent.

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      2 months ago

      I also understand consequences for actions. If it was a private insta page, that’s one thing, and I don’t necessarily support these men’s actions nor would I take them myself, insofar as the thirsty comments, but if I posted a picture of myself that was purposefully sexy publicly, those are the comments I have to be prepared to get. I really don’t think your argument holds weight, as the consent is done when they post the image publicly to a place with public comments. That was the choice they made. I think that if somebody’s pictures are leaked or something, that’s totally different, but just insofar as public forums… yeah no

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        2 months ago

        So does a woman walking in public wearing revealing clothes deserve to be catcalled? Because that’s basically what you’re arguing. It’s literally victim blaming, why can’t men simply be respectful? Why are women made to police themselves?

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      2 months ago

      I’d also really think somebody that cares about people wouldn’t throw somebody’s trauma in their face, fwiw

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          20 hours ago

          Excuse me? I know it may be rude to go in one of your comments, but I don’t know any other way of contacting you. I just wanted to know if you are fine, because based on your other things I think you suffered too much. I hope wherever you are, things might be okay. You seem like a strong person, and a great fighter. Thank you for everything.