It may be gratifying for women to see their husbands loading the dishwasher or folding laundry, but is it sexy? Yes, according to many media stories....
I cook and do most of the yardwork, husband does most of the everyday cleaning, it feels balanced to both of us & we have sex every day because we both like it.
I don’t think the specific allocation of tasks matters, you just can’t have resentment because someone isn’t doing enough. Doing your share IS sexy. Doing it as some sort of favor to get sex, less so.
I cook and do most of the yardwork, husband does most of the everyday cleaning, it feels balanced to both of us & we have sex every day because we both like it.
I don’t think the specific allocation of tasks matters, you just can’t have resentment because someone isn’t doing enough. Doing your share IS sexy. Doing it as some sort of favor to get sex, less so.