No gf, no friends, it’s hard to meet new people. Tinder and other apps don’t work. Idk even if I travel somewhere I’m alone

  • hagelslager@feddit.nl
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    13 days ago

    Are there hobbygroups in your area? Keep the focus on the shared hobby and get to meet people through said mutual interest, don’t focus on being there to make friends. Since the former leads to better relationships.

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      13 days ago

      Only some gym, and 2-3 restaurants. It’s a small town in middle of Europe. I have to drive about 100km to university by train every weekend because I study part-time.

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        12 days ago

        Same, but I don’t even study and my temporary place of work is full of people I don’t like. So I understand how fucked that situation is.

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          Yeah I also don’t like people at my work. I work as forklift operator and there people are mostly older than me and they live only this work. Their laught on me cause I study and I’m “smart”. I didn’t even talk much, I’m quiet, so I don’t know why they think I’m smug