An anti vax mom i used to work for told me once she wouldn’t mind if her kids got measles just so everyone would realize it’s not such a big deal. Maybe she won’t feel so cavalier now that her kids aren’t as protected by herd immunity, or maybe she’ll continue just being dumb as rocks.
Same, but after 1-2 cups I switch to decaf for the rest of the day. Two best drinks.
People like that think rape is ok, period. They don’t believe women about it, either, because they think any “excuse” you give the rapist is valid whether it’s wearing a skirt, having a drink, being LGBT+, committing any crime, being in the wrong place at the wrong time, etc.
They think rape is the right of men. (They likely also believe female perpetrated rape isn’t real at all)
Your dad had you in his mid 40s which is pretty late to have a kid, especially the further back you go. I’m early 30s and my grandmother was born in '46
I mean, kind of! We used to have a candle in the bathroom, but now i just light a match and wave it around a couple times anytime I want it to smell better in there
I wish my neighborhood had specific hours for lawn work / leaf blowers / power washers. I’m sick of my noise canceling headphones.
Huh I actually love that smell, and lately prefer it to scented candles which make me feel overwhelmed.
It doesn’t sound like you are controlling your emotions. You said you don’t tend to feel extreme emotions. Is it surprising to you that others feel big emotions, or do you feel big ones yourself you just ate able to control or repress them?
Seems like you’re implying that because procrastination is a symptom of OP’s disorder, they’re not responsible for the consequences.
Idk. We’re all adults here. Having trouble making the appointment IS the adhd. Not recognizing that trouble, acknowledging it, and asking for help absolutely is something their partner deserves to be upset about.
At some point we’ve got to take responsibility and stop saying," yes, I’ll do that" and then not doing it. We’ve got to say, “that sounds like something I have trouble with on my own. Would you be willing to help me?”
It’s not your fault you need help, but it is your fault if you don’t ask for it.
My baby and my cell phone. The two things i most often have on me.
I disagree. I don’t think me owning a banana to eat is hoarding even though my vitamins and plain oatmeal would meet my needs.
The need part…
Do i need a home office? Do i need a living room? Do I need a laundry room? Do I need more than two sets of clothes? Do I need a room for my child when she could technically sleep in my room?
Need is a very squishy word
My sister does this! It’s called Synesthesia !
Especially considering sexual harassment gets complete tolerance
I don’t think people are eating at McDs bendy they want it.
We’re eating it because we have no time, and little money. We’re running behind and trying to get somewhere. If we had the time we would be eating at home.
Well, as a human I’ve got plenty of biases, some of them petty I suppose.
Maybe it’s a the curtains are blue situation? Like we attribute all this meaning to art, and we get to guess at whether we’re right, or whether the artist wanted us to be drawn to specific components. We understand that art often has symbolism and that it’s meant to be evocative.
But with AI art, there’s none of that. Whatever meaning I attribute is purely projection - which is often true in regular art too, except that I have a social contract with the artist that we both agree we want me to look at this art and have feelings, whatever they may be. A social contact with a computer isn’t real and feels disingenuous.
Physically unattractive, but a good wink would still pique my interest, but it’s never happened to me. Winking is kind of rare. It’s like proof that they’re fast, clever, and confident, and that they desire a rapport with me.
Yes, the wink has to be paired with something clever, or wise, or nice. Some kind of friendly banter. You’d have to be already attractive to wink out of the blue, but if you’re already attractive and you wink, I’d probably like that too. It’s conveying interest. It’s conspiratorial and playful.
Pizza tastes better, even retroactively, if you find out someone you love made it for you.
A good wink. A guy can be medium attractive or not my type, but if they make a little joke and then give me individually a subtle wink, I’m smitten.
Not talking about a compliment followed by a wink. A joke, and then they let me in on it with them with a wink.
Which is nuts, because a two bedroom (hope your kids are the same gender) place is gonna be 24k of that. So 8k left over for insurance (car, life, home, and medical) food, childcare, all other bills, taxes, Christmas, school supplies, children’s clothes and shoes. It’s way below the number that would cover half of that.