I think the important takeaway of this meme is that native speakers have mastered the language in the way it wants to be spoken, but non-natives need to master formal language first to really understand casual use fully

I feel it as an autistic person, because even though English is my first language, I still feel like a foreigner learning a second

Both styles are valid

TL;DR: lol it okay

Rough, got laid off last week my sister is going through a divorce on the other side of the country