Glad I’m not part of the networking team at my job right now.
Zero. Because the people who complain about woke will always be able to find something to complain about.
Why do you think you should feel bad for them passing? Is it because they were responsible for your birth, because a life will cease to exist? There may be different reason why you think you should feel sad, but they only matter if it’s something that matters to you specifically.
The relief you feel for them about to die is genuine and given your description, nobody could blame you for having those feelings either.
Most likely you’re feeling a mix of both but feel more strongly about them passing than you feeling sad for someone dying. There’s nothing wrong with that.
Goodbye.