Hello guys! New here. I’m coming in peace from a friendly polish instance - fedit.pl. Actually I was contacted by Alice (I believe?) on one of subreddits, had a very nice chat and figured that this instance has to be quite cool. A question for starters - you are not federated - why? If you don’t want to federate with all that crap out there, you can just put a few friendly instances on your whitelist in admin options (assuming they also have only friendly whitelisted instances).
Yea I know I understand. They don’t have to be long.
Just pretend like you’re inviting them somewhere cool because you think you their cool for X reason. Like you’re hitting up a friend to join you at a concert.