“genuine” Something that is genuine is real and authentic, not fake or a copy. It can also describe someone who is sincere and honest and not pretending to be something they’re not.
The idea of being forced to be nice can be expressed in a few different ways:
- Insincere kindness: This describes friendliness that feels fake or inauthentic.
- Enforced politeness: This refers to situations where social norms or rules require politeness, even if it’s not genuine.
- Ingratiation: This is behavior aimed at pleasing someone in order to gain something from them.
I wouldn’t say scared, because it’s more indifference. If they’re an ass I typically just try to find a way to cut the conversation short and/or avoid that person if it’s possible.