My husband and both gave the obvious and identical answer. I’m really curious to see what Lemmy comes up with.

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    3 months ago

    “Did you know you break my heart every time you refuse to show me affection?”

    My cat loves my husband but not me.

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      3 months ago

      That would break my heart too! Our new(ish) dog doesn’t like my son (it’s a long story, he did nothing wrong, she just has trauma). I can see his eyes sinking when she barks at him. I’m sorry your cat is not showing you as much love!

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      3 months ago

      Honestly, I think this one wins, maybe tied with the “what are your communication cues.” Let them decide what’s important, even if it’s trivial for us.