Pride should stem from good personal decisions or accomplishments given one’s situation and life circumstances. Being born somewhere isn’t a decision nor an accomplishment.

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    3 months ago

    I think society would benefit if we all felt a sense of pride in our communities and people in a positive aspect

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      3 months ago

      sense of pride

      • Sense of community? Yes
      • Sense of respect? Yes
      • Sense of responsibility? Yes
      • Sense of accomplishments? Yes
      • Sense of pride? Errrr… Not really.

      When people write “a sense of pride in” I think they (and you) are saying “be responsible for X so you can feel good about it”. Nothing wrong with that, and I think you’re right.

      However I don’t like the phrase. Pride is the wrong emotional target. It brings with it a sense of superiority in some. There’s a reason it’s one of the deadly sins.

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        3 months ago

        Fair, but I think we agree with the sentiment of what I meant.