… For not doing this earlier right? These are amazing

Tastes so good. Guess we are just very different people. This is an amazing drink. Ill gladly accept your share of these to prevent your horror of ever encountering these again!

I have a fourpack in my fridge. These are so god damned good, they dont have any right to be but are absolutely amazing how good this is

I think it’s a personal choice, or at least i didn’t have any specific reason not to watch the movie first. They are a fair bit different but if you watch the series first that’s a lot of Alan alda to unsee if you watch the movie afterwards so i think it’s better for your movie experience if watch it before the series, and it was released first so there’s that

Oh thank you very much

Oh is it better to separate school from science and academia. Thank you, noted

Can i ask everyone to please watch the movie M * A * S * H in honour of Donald Sutherland passing… And share then share your experience here.

Im very curious how it will be received, i wont be surprised by some problematic aspects, but it was an impactful movie (and tv show)

I think they dealt with subject matter that might be important in this current era

For reference from uber eats near vancouver bc

Ive told people this many times, we need to create more room for failure. From school, to jobs, to building businesses, to loans, to health.

If we can try something because if we fail we can try something else, we would find a hell of a lot more to care about in this world.

And the most important thing we would care more about is ourselves

And add to that i think the history of debt and bankruptcy cant be dismissed very easily as it adds a lot to the situation.

Things you and I dont know is what factors other than becoming disabled contributed to the previous debt. But thats for OP to weigh

It entirely depends on what outcome OP is okay wiyh and how they approach getting there. You and I dont get to decide this, i was only offering OP a strategy to help under a specific context.

You can disagree with my advice all you want, its OPs opinion that matters

You are dictating what to do, i was only offering my viewpoint. I dont care if op finds my advice useless, they are simply welcome to it as thats they are the ones asking for opinions to help them make up their mind.

Take it or leave it, feel free to ask questions if you see a problem.

Im advocating for more discussion, you are shutting down discussion

Please stop commenting online, you make this a worse place not a better one by being so toxic as to be calling people bitch asses

Just leave you arent being a good community member, you are cancer

While i disagree with you in general about how you commented, i do believe each person in the relationship should have some form of personal discretionary funds available for whatever frivolous or not spending they want to do.

But that spending should not affect or effect the other person in the relationship in the way of putting the relationship, or the health and safety of anyone in it at risk.

OP if you are still struggling with this situation, it might be beneficial to you to examine what exactly is it that bothers you?

That she hid this from you?

That she is creating a debt you will be responsible for(if she is not willing/capable of managing this debt) without your consent? (You claimed that she has made you responsible for household finances)

That she is doing something without you?

Is it trauma from the situation that caused you to previously declare bankruptcy?

Is being in debt at all a trigger for you?

Theres lots of things about this situation that You probably dont stress over, but clearly something has you spooked by this. If you understand what doesnt bother you it might help navigate her defenses and focus on what is a problem, instead of wasting energy fighting over aspects of this situtuation you both can focus on what actually is bothering you and not the details that might lead the relationship to a worse place. Its just exhausting to be arguing over the wrong things. Its incredibly harmful to working things out

Ive been on the other end of this. She was the bread winner when we moved in together and then she kept changing jobs and not liking them eventually she was too depressed to hold a job at all. My 15$ an hour job was our only income for about 2 years at one point and i found out she had racked up 5000 on her credit card.

Before i found out she would always get upset about me questioning her use of that card. We were already in debt for a car we bought together and we were really struggling.

She eventually decided she was unhappy and broke up with me. Have dated 2 people since that didnt go anywhere and its been almost 15 years now

Point of contention. Shes not “spending het money” shes spending credit. Shes in debt without telling her married partner of 20 years.

Hes responisble for that debt as well, so its not about him controlling her earned money.

This is a trust issue, and since he is unable to earn money thats really fucking shitty of her to hide a thing like this from him. The amount isnt really the issue, he found out about this debt when it was small enough to be managed, but this could be the beginning of a much bigger incident.

Seems worth offering as an option. If you can get 10-20 kms out of the solar panel in decent time it might be enough of an emergency precaution to give people who live outside of cities less reason to poopoo EVs

Eli5 went private?!

Please share ingredients and recipe you use, if you would be so kind

Your welcome. If it helps was a former DJ of 10 years on 91.3 theZone out of Victoria BC Canada

His new station is a licensed SOCAN broadcaster. He has a lot of great interviews you can look through as well.

Hope you find it useful!

And online radio station that has no songs older than 36 months helps me.

Best thing is its free. No ads. And you dont need to make an account.

(They are changing to modernrock.ca) https://www.whatwasthatradio.com/