Thank you for putting in this amount of effort highlighting some shortcomings of the Fediverse

Thanks, will check it out :)

Sounds cool, where do I best keep up with the project? Is there some RSS feed?

To add on to that: Obsidian is the only program that currently has this (to my knowledge) and it is a huge gamechanger. It just feels so much more usable than anything with a source and preview view. [I’m not demanding or anything, this is the stuff you do in your freetime, but you might want to go down that road.]

I feel like there are two different issues at play here:

• OP being not very confortable with their boyfriend meeting his ex. This is something you two have to communicate over, set boundaries and build trust.

• The triple meetup. I would recommend that you actively try to not be jealous or overprotective. Rather, see it like he would be introducing you to his best friend. Try to befriend them or at least be friendly. Be interested. Try to understand why he likes her. She might be very cool!

Because you using it gives it a lot of market power. Websites will only cater towards chromium etc.