

These apps are designed to literally put you in this position, they erode your self esteem intentionally so that you spend money on their platform.
So first of all, none of this is a reflection of you as a person; it’s a malevolent act by a corporation that you’re victim of.
My advice is to find someone through mutual interest, personally my goal this year was to get healthier so I’ve picked up a few activities to keep me fit; rock-climbing gym, community gardening/permaculture, boxing and archery.
I’ve met some lovely people through these activities, and bonding over a mutual interest gives you time to weigh up whether a romantic interest would work or not. There’s also the potential to be set up/hit it off with a friend of theirs if they think you’re a catch.
LtG has been pretty on point with its modelling compared to real life data since its publication.
BUT LtG wasn’t a prediction for the end of the world, it was/is a model of interconnected metrics about our society at large and to illustrate two points:
You cannot have infinite growth in a finite system.
Society has to maintain a harmony of these metrics to prevent itself from collapsing.
Basically what happened after its publication, a bunch of economists attacked it with their can openers. Some whackjobs claimed the club of rome was an illuminati front, a few scientists recalibrated the model with updated data, showing evidence in its favour and the world moved on ignoring it and the myriad of other climate warnings