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  • It really depends on the kind of buses I think.

    I did a lot of traveling in South America and it was a great way to see different countries. A lot of the buses were pretty luxurious with 180 degree reclining seats, meals and bus attendants to give your blankets and things. You could rest comfortably during the night trips. I also met some interesting people along the way. Some trips were horrible too, but at least I have the stories.

    I probably wouldn’t do it in the US. Don’t know about other countries.

    Can you actually extend the trip and stay at some hotels/hostels or something along the way? If the buses are comfortable, and you have the time and budget, i think it would be great to visit three different countries, enjoy the foods and sites, meet people along the way, and have that time by yourself to do whatever you want.


  • Love takes many forms. Caring for someone without the expectation of a benefit you want is a form of love. If my wife came down with MS and we could no longer have sex, I would still love her, respect her and admire the mother and life partner that she is. I would also be upset that I couldn’t have sex any more.

    I personally would try to figure out the following, with or without professional help:

    • Why is she depressed? She is going through a lot. She is probably scared you are going to abandon her when she needs someone the most. She may also hate the situation that you are in because of her illness. She is also probably angry at the world that she has to suffer this. She is also probably worried for her child and feels guilty that she can’t give her more. There are so many feelings she has to process, it may be easier to just shut down.
    • If you remove the expectations of sex with her, would you be willing to stay with her as a caring and respectful partner and mother to your child?
    • You might explore non-monogamy. That’s going to be a complicated conversation, but maybe something your wife is willing to explore. Just ensure it takes into consideration all the issues in the first point.

    A good mother and partner is so hard to find. Love can take many forms. Don’t feel limited in your choices if you can make other options work out.









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    5 months ago

    I think that would have the same problem of cancel for the first button and a different name for the desired function on the next screen.

    Cancel (delete) -> Cancel (cancel deleting) / Confirm (confirm deleting)

    My suggestion is

    Discard (delete) -> discard (delete) / Cancel (cancel deleting)







  • I was looking up info for another comment and found this site. It’s from 2021, but the information seems solid.

    https://www.flyingpenguin.com/?p=35819

    This table was probably most interesting, unfortunately the formatting doesn’t work on mobile, but I think you can make sense of it.

    Car 2021 Sales So Far Total Deaths

    Tesla Model S 5,155 40

    Porsche Taycan 5,367 ZERO

    Tesla Model X 6,206 14

    Volkswagen ID 6,230 ZERO

    Audi e-tron 6,884 ZERO

    Nissan Leaf 7,729 2

    Ford Mustang Mach-e 12,975 ZERO

    Chevrolet Bolt 20,288 1

    Tesla Model 3 51,510 87

    So many cars with zero deaths compared to Tesla.

    It isn’t if Tesla’s FSD is safer than humans, it’s if it’s keeping up with the automotive industry in terms of safety features. It seems like they are falling behind (despite what their marketing team claims).


  • All throughout these comments, you seem deeply, deeply confused. Let’s go over this sloooowly.

    Mercedes has two autonomous systems. Let’s call them MB FSD and MB Autodrive.

    MB FSD has similar features to Tesla’s. It isn’t geo-restricted. You have to pay attention, just like Tesla. It isn’t true autonomous driving, just like Tesla. If you have an accident, you are responsible, just like Tesla.

    MB Autodrive is another feature set. It is L3 autonomy, which means it is limited geographically and the driver should be available to take over when prompted. It also means that the driving is completely autonomous. The driver can be reading, playing on their phone, or simply laying there with their eyes closed. Mercedes will even take legal and financial responsibility for any accidents that happen on their system.

    So, to summarize:

    FSD -type systems: Mercedes and Tesla (and many other car makers)

    Level 3: not Tesla, Mercedes

    True autonomous driving is when the manufacturer takes responsibility for the car’s actions. Anything else is assisted driving. Until Tesla takes responsibility for accidents, you can’t consider them to have certified autonomous driving.

    Is that any clearer to you? After seeing some of your other shilling for Tesla in other posts, maybe there is a reason you don’t want to recognize the advantages of other systems?



  • Marcus Aurelius was helpful to me - don’t be sad about the things you’ve lost, be grateful about what you’ve gained. He was specifically talking about the loss of a child. Some people are angry at God because he took away their child to soon. We should be grateful for even the short amount of time we had with that child. I have been able to apply it to so many other situations as well. Just living in constant gratitude can make your life so much better.