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  • as if I were the one who pleaded with him to stay

    I don’t understand this. I quoted your own words stating that you were the one who pleaded with him to stay but here you seem to be implying that it was him who pleaded with you and not the other way round.

    had so many red flags

    Yes, there are a lot of red flags in your behaviour. I’m pointing them out because they might go some way to explaining what happened with the relationship.


  • that doesn’t make me responsible for his decision to cheat

    I haven’t suggested it does.

    this platform may have rules like other apps

    Just out of curiosity, which apps prohibit the use of the word “sex”?

    Why would I be afraid or ashamed of the word?

    Indeed.

    that doesn’t mean I deserved to be cheated on or that everything was my fault

    I haven’t suggested it does or was.


  • Red flags:

    he eventually said we were incompatible and left me

    I mean everything else is a footnote to that really.

    we lived far away from each other

    Whenever we talked, i was usually the one who initiated the conversation.

    told me I was his choice and that he could change his choice

    And some really troubling red flags:

    I pleaded and begged him to stay

    I cried and begged him to stay

    I stalked his friend’s account

    while scrolling through his phone

    I found in his ChatGPT history

    And lastly…

    s…

    Just the fact that you’re unwilling to even write out the word “sex” is odd and hints at maladjustment on your part.












  • there are British politicians who seem to really want to enter into war with Russia and people need to sit them in a room and be like “no, that’s a bad politician, bad; no starting wars with Russia; bad”

    While wanting to start wars is bad, I think in this case it would be a little delusional to think that the war hasn’t already started and that it wasn’t Russia who started it.