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winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.comto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Can an American go to Europe just for cheaper healthcare?English2·5 days agoYes. I didn’t go to Europe but went to mexico for dental work. It doesn’t matter where but some places are obviously cheaper than others.
winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Work Reform@lemmy.world•Bernie Sanders says that if AI makes us so productive, we should get a 4-day work weekEnglish14·5 days agoBut then they couldn’t pay 1/2 as many people as they used to while still expecting the same amount of work to get done.
Now we get one every week!
winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.comto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How to get rid of swollen batteries?English7·8 days agoIf its recalled don’t you return it for a refund usually?
Until the cost of a sim card w/service is less than the revenue they generate from it. Which I fear is scarily close.
That’s been like 10 years by now or more
winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Games@lemmy.world•You can now search for Steam games by adjustable difficulty, mouse-only options and other accessibility tagsEnglish2·17 days agohttps://nucleus-coop.github.io/
I used this to play Minecraft with my girlfriend on my PC and it works alright. I do use it with 2 screens though. There’s other games too but I haven’t tried any.
But yes I do agree there is a severe lack of splitscreens nowadays especially with the hardware we have available now compared to what we used to.
winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Technology@lemmy.world•Wikipedia Pauses AI-Generated Summaries After Editor BacklashEnglish28·19 days agoOn the third hand some of us just want to be able to read a fucking article with information instead of a tiktok or ai generated garbage. That’s wikipedia, at least it used to be before this garbage. Hopefully it stays true
winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.comto memes@lemmy.world•Why are people calling Windows vistaEnglish11·20 days agoNothing else works but hey the blacks are blacker!
winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Games@lemmy.world•Asus and Lenovo’s handhelds get price hike as Valve pauses some Steam Deck salesEnglish5·20 days agoEver heard of the Ouya?
winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.world•What the fuck youEnglish10·21 days agoI’m a fan of Piracy megathread
winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Advice on moving my Spotify library to NavidromeEnglish8·22 days agoZotify pulls from Spotify and uses your Spotify account to get your actual playlists and download the songs directly
winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Stop Drinking@lemmy.world•Could I get some advice on reinforcing sobriety?English4·22 days agoSometimes it is better to avoid the party or those situations where you will be around drinks and feeling tempted. I know it sucks to miss out on things your friends are doing but it is not worth the mental anguish as you have experienced. It takes over and controls your mind and makes it nearly impossible to resist.
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It sounds stupid but it did actually help me quit in the beginning. I got one of those tracker apps that would count up the days that I was sober and maintaining that streak and seeing the number going higher helped me to want to maintain it even more. Then if I did fail it would give me a new goal to shoot for. “Alright I did 2 weeks last time so I’ll beat that this time!”. 2 weeks turned into 3, 4, etc and eventually it never reset. That was almost 4 years ago that I finally had my last failure. I still have the app on my old phone so the count should be around 1200 days or so by now. No way am I giving that up! I think the app was called quitzilla.
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I’m not sure about that. For me I had to be done with it. I flip flopped a few times trying to quit and getting sucked in, doing the reward thing you are talking about. “Oh I’ll just drink on my birthday” or Christmas or whatever bullshit excuse it was. but one day I finally had enough of feeling shitty and wasting my money and having random crying outbursts where I’m worried about the alcohol controlling my life.
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Short answer, no. I still think about it some days and really want a drink. I know I can never have one. I always want to believe I can just have 1 but I know that 1 will be an extremely slippery slope that I have to fight back. So I just never give in. I can’t because I’m afraid I’ll go down that hole again and might never make it out. And back to the thing from #1 I still have that lingering count in the back of my head. I don’t physically need to look at it anymore but its always there, counting up. Making sure I’m staying on track. Another thing that helped me was being honest with friends or family. Telling them I had a problem helped me to hold myself accountable. I was able to hide my drinking and perform my job and never got in any trouble or anything but being open and honest about it has helped to keep me accountable. I can only imagine how horrible it would feel to have to tell my mom that I started drinking again.
I don’t think setting an end goal is a good idea because it gives you something to look forward to and makes it harder for you to fight off those urges for other random reasons. “Well if I can drink on new years day to celebrate, why can’t I drink on Christmas too? Its just one more day” and eventually you rationalize it back to weekends and nights and youre back in the hole again. Unfortunately its a decision you need to make and continue to make every day. Some days are harder than others, but nowadays for me, most days are easy and I don’t even think about it. Even when being bombarded with advertisements, drinks in movies, video games, stores on every corner, somehow it has become easier for me with time. Like all addictions we must realize it’s bad for us and we must do everything to overcome it, when we decide the time is right. Knowing myself, I know I can never do that to myself again because if I do, I don’t think I’m coming back again.
Hopefully any of this helps, I know it sucks being where you are but many of us have been there and you are not alone. Like I said before communicating about my problem to people I trust was an important step in holding myself accountable and maintaining my sobriety. Making this post asking for advice is a good step, please don’t ignore it. Continue to ask for help when you are struggling and eventually, you too can look at your past self and go “damn that sucked and I was an idiot back then but I made it out and now I’m all the stronger for it”
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winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Technology@lemmy.world•Gemini will now automatically summarize your emails unless you opt outEnglish4·30 days agoI agree fuck Google but also poor earth :(
winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Technology@lemmy.world•YouTube tops Disney and Netflix in TV viewingEnglish1·1 month agoI made a filter in ublock origin. Haven’t seen shorts in forever and I didn’t even realize they were trying to peddle ‘games’ now
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