• Call me Lenny/Leni@lemm.ee
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    5 months ago

    Socializing. Things to say in a conversation don’t come to me naturally like they seem to do with other people. Often people remark it’s like talking to a wall because I don’t know how to come up with an answer to their open questions on the fly. And without that, they see no foundation to build friendship on.

    • serpineslair@lemmy.world
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      5 months ago

      Damn, I really relate to this. When I get nervous because I don’t know what to say, I come back with one of my dreaded default responses.

      • Today@lemmy.world
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        5 months ago

        I realized today that people on movies are weird in cute, quirky ways. Most of us are just weird in weird ways.