You know, like “always split on 18,” or “having kids is the most rewarding thing you can do in life.”

What’s that one bit of advice you got from a trusted friend that you know deep, deep down would just ruin your thing?

  • ComfortableRaspberry@feddit.de
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    3 months ago

    “Der klügere gibt nach” which directly translates to “the wiser one gives in” or more or less matches the idiom “it’s better to bend than to break”.

    Growing up I heard this a lot and it’s mostly use to silence those who have (well-founded) objections. Took me a while to realize that this leads to us following the stupid because they don’t give in which subsequently makes the wise one the stupid one.

    • Jojo@lemm.ee
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      3 months ago

      Though the grass may kneel before the slightest breeze, the mighty oak does not bow even to the strongest gale.