I have many interests, if not too many. From cooking, woodwork and computers. Many of my friends are academically very successful but are frankly painfully boring and I sometimes feel isolated around them.

I like to cook when they hang at my house, I’ll try to teach them how, some basic tips, etc. As soon as I glanced towards them again I realized they walked off.

This summarizes a lot of our interactions. As we get to a topic I understand and can speak passionately about, they sort of turn off. They talk to each other fine, but it’s often internet drama, school drama or sports.

I’m not in college\classes and it seems almost impossible to meet others, especially others that are interesting and curious. I find myself bonding most to adults but it’s isolating I can’t find others my age.

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    2 months ago

    Maybe because they have no desire to let you teach them things they have no interest in?

    It sounds like you expect them to hang around and watch you do things you like… Of course they walk away if it’s not interesting to them.

    So yeah, you need to find other friends somewhere, just like you say. It’s difficult.