• apocalypticat@lemmy.world
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    I see this type of thing a lot. Both things can be true: not wanting a pet; and responsibly caring for a pet once the decision is made for you.

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      “I know I’ll be the one stuck with caring for it when the next interesting thing comes along.”

      “We don’t have the budget right now.”

      “I’ve buried dogs before and I don’t want to again.”

      Oh hey a surprise puppy. Might as well make the best of it.

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        I think the last one is the primary reason most of the time, at least with people that end up like this. They know they love hard and they know it won’t last forever.

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    Dealing with this right now. Dog is super cute. It is still a terrible decision for my family, and that’s not the dog’s fault.

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      southsamurai has a great overall explanation. I would add it also depends on the age and any medical conditions of each.

      We have a 45 pound dog (age 12) and a 15 pound cat (age 17). The dog is on senior/old man food but is otherwise in good health. The cat has kidney disease so we have to get only specific kinds. Per month the cat’s food is about $5 more than the dog’s, but that’s for a smaller amount.