AKA please, don’t tell me “get professional help”. Poor people can’t afford it anyways.

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    2 months ago

    Don’t do it on your own, do it with other people.

    I found that the more time I spent with other people, the less time I was spending beating myself up.

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      Highly agree with this.

      I struggled with depression for years and the most beneficial change I made was to put effort into developing close friendships. Having friends and family that you can talk to and share things with is immeasurably valuable.

      Also, listening to other’s problems helps develop your own empathetic response and it’s a short step to extending that empathy to yourself. Be kind to yourself and avoid negative self-talk. You deserve better. Life is hard enough as it is.

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        2 months ago

        You’re literally interacting with people right now.

        There are people online who need help with all sorts of problems.

        If nothing else, you can just listen to what they have to say.