• archonet@lemy.lol
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    lowering my expectations

    hopefully, pretending to be straight or asexual; and being able to be happy without friends, as these will be needed survival skills

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      We’re better together. Don’t try to survive on your own, having friends you can trust is crucial for survival

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        that’s unfortunate, as I don’t really have any close friends I’d say I trust or could count on for more than thoughts and prayers. oh well.

        sometimes that’s just how it is.

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    Protecting my privacy. I am gender nonconforming and on HRT. So with the current political atmosphere and the fact that it has enabled and encouraged hate speech and attacks, I’ll new to be more careful on platforms that my identity is more prevalent.

    I’m not going to hide, as I’m not hiding by posting here. But I’m going to remove my data from corporate platforms that have connections to law enforcement and have poor security that insist on keeping my personal details. Can’t trust the federal government or any company, starting next year if the Project 2025 or Trump’s plan are truly put in place.

    • Idontevenknowanymore@mander.xyz
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      I’m a cis het in the most protected racial class and gender and I’m scrubbing my shit. Facebook and Reddit accounts have been deleted and this and mastodon linked to a protonmail account accessed through a VPN are my only social accounts. We all have something to be afraid of and I’m already thinking about how to build an Anne Frank hideaway in my laundry room for my trans and brown friends. Protect yourself and hit me up if there’s some way I can help.

  • ImpulseDrive42@lemmy.world
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    I started learning how to make karaoke videos. Because the songs I like to sing are not readily available in karaoke format on YouTube.

    I made a channel for it and everything 😉 I’m getting ready to publish my 2nd video very soon.

    My goal is to try to do 1 song per month at a minimum. But, I do also have a day job and life stuff to juggle. So the YouTube channel is just a hobby.

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    Flute! I started learning it last December, it’s been nearly a year and I’ve learned SO much. Going to keep at it and get even better!

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    Basic music theory and guitar playing.

    Also, learning how to use an Altair 8800 clone

  • RyanLiu@lemmy.world
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    Exobiology in Elite: Dangerous. Just started last night and is already making some progress.

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    I want to get better at deeply understanding people, which probably starts with getting better at listening

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    Reading japanese, living life. Hopefuly I want to be better at overcoming my trauma but that outcome is kinda independed of my actions towards that.

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    Software development. I’m still not very good, but I’m better than I was at the start of the year.