• Album@lemmy.ca
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    2 months ago

    The trick is to realize you’re completely wasting your time earlier.

  • Lvxferre [he/him]@mander.xyz
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    2 months ago

    4x or so in my case. Same thing, though.

    Most of the time it boils down to “I can’t be arsed”. Stuff like:

    • I’d need to rephrase it to still say what I think, without being impolite. I know that I’m an arsehole, but I’d rather not ruin someone else’s day if I don’t see a reason why.
    • I’d be dealing with someone who’s clearly irrational and/or disingenuous.
    • I realise that I’m taking into my own hands some matter that someone else is better prepared to. For example, explaining a subject that I’m not too certain about.
  • stinky@redlemmy.com
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    2 months ago

    you have more self control than I do

    check my comment history. I’m rude as fuck lol. I own my instance though

    • Godort@lemm.ee
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      “Oh, I have an opinion about this.”

      “Wait, my opinion has already been covered across a few other comments. No one will care about another echo in the chamber, I’ll delete that and just upvote those other comments and move on”

      • kabi@lemm.eeOP
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        *replies*

        *realizes that while writing the comment someone else replied saying roughly the same thing*

        *sweats nervously*