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Cake day: June 15th, 2023

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  • Me and a few other drivers were parked by an unmanned gas station (late night near airport pickup that charged per minute from entry) - anyway, an early '00s renault hatchback swings into the station, pulling a U-turn before three unmarked police vehicles with sirens on surround it.

    Officers step out and walk over, having a chat with the driver for a bit. Then, the driver steps out and the other passengers start to come out, one after another. After a little bit, there are twelve adults have exited this little hatchback along with a bunch of luggage. Driver is arrested shortly after.

    Never seen anything like it before or after.


  • Iceblade@lemmy.worldMtoAsk Men@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    Depends greatly on whether it’s someone I expect to meet again.

    Don’t expect to meet again: Treat them like any other person. Either (a) not interact with them, maybe glance and smile, wonder what goes on in their life for a moment, (b) do whatever non-personal interaction I’m having with them, be polite, smile or © very rarely strike up a casual conversation until we part ways.

    Expect to meet again: Again, treat them like any other person, but I also usually look for any reason to not be romantically attracted to them anymore. The overwhelming majority of women aren’t interested in me, and being able to move them over to the Big Box of Potential Friends (where all men live) significantly lowers the stakes of interactions and makes life simpler in general.

    Trouble only really starts if I’ve been unable to find a good reason to not be attracted to you after meeting a few times (these people are few and far between, less than a handful per year). At this point I’ll usually ask them out, which thus far has filtered out the rest.












  • The kinds of medication (cortisone) used in these cases aren’t mind altering. If this problem is something you’re actually bothered by, ask your doctor specifically to explain what the medication does, what kinds of side effects are common and to follow up on it (I could too, but my time is limited).

    At the very least consider it. I’d hate for somebody to be suffering from a preventable illness unneccessarily.

    *There’s always an asterisk, and that is that low down in the side effects depression is listed. However, this is the case even for common medication such as paracetamol or ibuprofen. Suffering from disease is also a potential cause of depression (yeah life sucks sometimes), usually with higher incidence.



  • If you don’t feel safe with taking your (I expect it’d be cortisone) pills, ask your doctor about it. Steroids aren’t inherently harmful, and the kind used in these cases definitely not addicting. The body actually produces a decent amount on its own in different varities, testosterone for instance.

    The reason that professional athletes get checked for even these types is that higher doses can have performance-enhancing effects. If you are a professional athlete, probably ask someone in the field about it, even they can get excemptions if there’s a (proven) underlying medical condition.