Refusing to reduce complex reality into slogans and clichés since 19XX

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  • And I don’t mean expressing distaste for something when it’s relevant to the discussion.

    I don’t personally find that post complainy in the way I was talking about. It’s frustrating and kind of funny. I don’t sense any negative vibe there at all.

    The kind of complaining I’m talking about is the exhausting kind to be around. Even there I express my frustration but also say I have a solution for the problem.

    Pointing out everything wrong with the world without offering anything even remotely like a sustainable, realistic alternative is incredibly unproductive

    Ofcourse I too complain sometimes. I just try not to but I’m not perfect.




  • You’ll be hard-pressed to catch me complaining about anything. I don’t like hearing others do it, so I don’t take part either.

    And I don’t mean expressing distaste for something when it’s relevant to the discussion. I mean the kind of unprompted whining we’re all exposed to here on a daily basis. I’m too aware of the social game being played there, and even the thought of joining in makes me cringe. Pointing out everything wrong with the world without offering anything even remotely like a sustainable, realistic alternative is incredibly unproductive - it’s mostly just tribal signaling.








  • I don’t think you understood the point of an elimination diet. It’s not about what you eat but about what you stop eating.

    If you stick to meat for 30 days and start feeling better, it’s not necessarily because meat is good for you - it’s because you stopped eating something else that your body was responding badly to. After 30 days you can start adding other foods back in one by one. If you suddenly notice a decline in how you feel, the last thing you added is the likely culprit.

    It’s much easier to remove everything and reintroduce them one by one than to randomly cut out certain things to see if that makes any difference.