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Cake day: August 5th, 2023

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  • Currently reading Nobodys Normal by anthropologist Roy Richard Grinker.

    It’s a hard read as I’m constantly googling how he did his research. But I do absolutely agree with his theory that “normal” assumes there’s a baseline of what that looks like. And that data is impossible to get at the current time, only when you look back on it.

    For example, we have data to identify what normal can look like in 1920 based on averages. But it’ll be pretty racist and not what people want to hear, and it’s also missing a lot like accurate health records and the huge percentage of people who were misdiagnosed or undocumented.

    Overall, I agree. There is no normal.




  • I worked with a complete asshole who would go out of his way to be a huge dick to me. If there was a weakness, he’d exploit it.

    One day, he privately pulled me aside and touched my neck and cheek area, said, “You should shave here and here. Tighten it up. Makes you look more presentable.”

    No joke. No mockery. Just a heads up from the biggest asshole I ever met. And he was right. That was twenty years ago, and I think about that every time I shave there.