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Cake day: October 13th, 2023

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  • The one I live in: Finland

    The only thing I don’t like is the short summer and long winter but I try and convince myself that it’s the 4 distinctive seasons and the shitty winter that makes me truly appreciate summer. It’s also good for the human character which probably partly explains why we’ve been voted the happiest country in the world who knows how many years in a row. It may be less true now but it’s still in our genes; in the past you better be nice to your neighbour because once the winter comes and food runs out, your life may depend on them.











  • I’ll resist the temptation to voice my opinion about your relationship as I don’t know either of you and don’t have enough information.

    I do however live in a open relationship myself but our situation is a bit different. It’s me who has practically zero interest in sex so my gf is allowed to see other guys and she does. I used to be extremely jealous person before but I somehow grew out of it. The first few times she went out with one felt kind of weird but as time passed I got over it and no longed does it make me feel jealous. What I’ve noticed is that as long as I trust her there’s no problem. It’s when ever she acts in a way that I find suspicious that all my insecurities creep up. Having been cheated on before likely has something to do with this. If you’ve been suspecting that she has done stuff behind your back, even if she hasn’t, then that is not the time to go forward with this. Trust is the number one, two and third most important thing in a open relationship.