

What should really be the case is that the ring doorbell has a contact switch that works like a regular doorbell. When the doorbell is pressed it triggers the exact same thing a plain old doorbell used to do. Now all the other electronic and cloud functions are neat features and if they go down it’s no big deal.











As a parent of four I can say without a doubt that taking a few hours a week to maintain your sanity and stress levels is as important as the child. If you’re constantly stressed and tired you are going to be a shitty parent. The same goes for her. She needs that time as much as he does (doing her thing whatever that may be). But I’m guess from her reaction she was raised to only care about the child and that anything else was selfish. Turning yourself into a martyr is actually one of the most selfish things you can do.
Tl;dr: Take care of yourself, as well as the child. Everyone will be better off.