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  • No, I mean someone you can talk to privately. Look, I’ve done marriage counciling with someone I eventually split with, as well as therapy on my own. They are very different. If you’ve been through all the things you describe here, then you should absolutely talk to a professional. It’s a good thing to talk to someone. They can help you sort out all the difficult things you’ve been through.

    I absolutely sympathize with you because it sounds like you’re carrying a lot. It really does help to get an outside perspective on stuff like this.



  • Wow. That was a lot. I’m not trying to insult you, I’m just concerned. A lot of what you’re saying doesn’t add up logically and sounds an awful lot like legitimate abuse you’re undergoing coupled with some mental illness somewhere in the equation.

    First off, if your husband is abusing you in any way, get yourself and children away as soon as you can. Secondly, please talk to a mental health professional. There’s no shame in getting checked out. It’s possible a lot of the anguish you’re describing can be addressed by therapy and/or medication. I’m sorry you’re going through all of this. It sounds terrifying, but it’s clear to me that you need some assistance.