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The neighbour connected to my back fence is the original owner of her house, built 1977. She has no grass, but the most beautiful flower and berry bearing trees and bushes, paths, and oriental statues, lanterns. It’s a real pleasure having her yard out back of mine.
“choosing” is a funny way to spell “gave up”.
But it’s an good start none the less. If you can find contentment slonez then you are ready for a serious relationship as well. Having yourself sorted is the best thing anyone can do for themselves to find lasting love.