• AliceOPMA
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    2 months ago

    I mean? You can always just dm me if you want.

    I’m gunna level with you,

    Lemmy is toxic asf. Negative, political extremism all over the place, and no one wants to talk about anything other then politics on here.

    So…yea…

    I need a break from that shit sometimes. I currently have 118 fuckin notifications. I’m sure some of those, are people being dicks. And I’ve got to be in the mood to deal with that. So yes, sometimes (usually at the beginning of first logging in)

    Lemmy is fun 🙌 but then the toxicity real just seeps in after that, and that’s when I’ve had about enough and log out. When my notifications are low, it’s easier to have a dialog. But when they’re piled up, you won’t hear from me as fast.

    Anyway

    I Pretty much figured it’s not a technical issue. I think someone on your end is probably just getting personally annoyed with my blowing up the feed. If that’s the case, that’s fine, buy instead of dressing it up like a tech issue at least just be honest about that.

    • j4k3@lemmy.world
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      2 months ago

      Use your block features dear. There are only a handful of toxic people on here. You’ve got to block all the psyops political stuff and try not to let that stuff get under your skin.

      Nothing I’m saying is passive aggressive or trying to be negative/critical. I’m simply trying to help. I’m disabled and this is like my public commons. I try to treat people just like I would in real life. My pain creeps up on me in a way that is hard for me to detect effectively. It is like a fatigue tension that is effects my sleep and is always present. I can be an old grouchy pain in the ass when I’m at my worst. There are times when I just have to go curl up in a ball for a day or few, but even at my worst, I mean no harm to anyone.

      I care that you’re here and putting in some effort. I have no further pretense or personal bias.

      When people really bug me in places like this, I usually go read some science fiction, bit that is me. You do you. Have a pleasant day or evening, I demand it!