It’s funny how showing emotion to them is always crying. Like that’s their default for any emotion?
I can’t remember my dad or grandpa shaming me for crying as a kid. It was usually “ yeah you did something stupid and got hurt. Suck it up and move on” is that really “shaming”?
I don’t think so. That’s how I was raised to. I feel like they over exaggerated to a point to where you will empathize with them so they can feel better about being overly emotional
It’s funny how showing emotion to them is always crying. Like that’s their default for any emotion?
I can’t remember my dad or grandpa shaming me for crying as a kid. It was usually “ yeah you did something stupid and got hurt. Suck it up and move on” is that really “shaming”?
I don’t think so. That’s how I was raised to. I feel like they over exaggerated to a point to where you will empathize with them so they can feel better about being overly emotional
Very much this, why is crying the gold standard for showing emotions?