Thinking about this because of a greentext I saw earlier complaining about OF models.

It feels like a lot of the stigma surrounding sex work in the modern day (that doesn’t just boil down to misogyny/gender norms/religion) is based on the fact that selling intimate aspects of one’s self places a set value on something that many see as sacred; something that shouldn’t have monetary value.

Not to say anything about the economic validity of a society without currency, but I think that, hypothetically, if that were to exist, sex work would be less stigmatized since this would no longer be a factor. Those engaged in sex work would be more likely to be seen as doing it because it’s something they are good at/enjoy, and less because it’s an “easy” way to make money, as some think. It would also eliminate the fear of placing set value on social, non sex-work related intimacy (not that those fears were well-founded to begin with).

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    It does if they formally define it as their career path and treat it as such.

    Sex work is more than just having sex with people for fun. There’s layers, specializations, and skill to it. Not all of it is strictly physical. Someone might want to just go on a date after their spouse passed away, for instance. Handling that situation requires a lot of emotional maturity and your skill in those situations improves with experience.

    Edit: better examples would be sex surrogacy or porn creation.

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      So. In your eyes…

      Are they having sex with everyone that asks?

      Or are they only having sex with people they want to for no money, like literally every other human?

      Because the more you talk, the more it’s feeling like you want a society with public sex slaves.

      If there’s no sex, why are you calling them sex workers? In your example, it’s just sympathy dates?

      Seriously, none of what you’re saying makes sense. And I know this is a sub for ideas that aren’t thought out… But still bro

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        Other commenter is right, I was thinking more things like creating pornography or sex surrogacy, things that people would find fulfilling and choose to do irrespective of what incentives may or may not be on offer, and would qualify as more traditional “work”.

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          things that people would find fulfilling and choose to do irrespective of what incentives may or may not be on offer

          Again, people already do that for free…

          Just with people they choose to.

          So either you’re advocating for sex slaves who feel obligated to do so with anyone, or it’s just still normal sexual/romantic activities.

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            I don’t agree, I think it’s possible to compartmentalize certain sexual activities as not romantic and also not obligation-based, while still being fulfilling and work-related in a post-scarcity society. Like helping clients overcome sexual insecurity or barriers with sex surrogacy, for instance.