So yeah, bro, you got the right attitude - tighten up the appearance! Dress nice, and make some passes at girls.
I also appreciate that you go for women who are a bit on the plump side. I endorse that. I am married, lol, I don’t go for any women anymore except the one who said “Yes” to me years ag.
It feels funny to be concerned with getting your hair looking good & your clothes nice, wrinkle-free, presentable every single day… It feels to grind against our nature… But I got used to it, and now I even kind of like looking in the mirror and see I look ‘preppy’ (as we used to refer to men dressing in nice, fashionably casual clothes - perhaps you are in my age group and remember this term).
Im 36, i definitely need to get out of the habit of getting off of work, taking a shower and then falling asleep in my underwear or literally sitting down in my underwear, writing a novel occasionally throwing on a pair of shorts to smoke a cigarette shirtless out back or vaping lol
So yeah, bro, you got the right attitude - tighten up the appearance! Dress nice, and make some passes at girls.
I also appreciate that you go for women who are a bit on the plump side. I endorse that. I am married, lol, I don’t go for any women anymore except the one who said “Yes” to me years ag.
It feels funny to be concerned with getting your hair looking good & your clothes nice, wrinkle-free, presentable every single day… It feels to grind against our nature… But I got used to it, and now I even kind of like looking in the mirror and see I look ‘preppy’ (as we used to refer to men dressing in nice, fashionably casual clothes - perhaps you are in my age group and remember this term).
Im 36, i definitely need to get out of the habit of getting off of work, taking a shower and then falling asleep in my underwear or literally sitting down in my underwear, writing a novel occasionally throwing on a pair of shorts to smoke a cigarette shirtless out back or vaping lol
That is the life, my man, you are doing well - but yeah, that is not the methodology for obtaining a gf.