I’m not hip to the lingo

  • ContrarianTrail@lemm.ee
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    2 months ago

    Depends on which definition you go by, I guess. I prefer the literal meaning of the word; involuntary celibate. A person who is celibate against their own will.

      • ContrarianTrail@lemm.ee
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        2 months ago

        I think you’re being a bit unfair there. These attitudes often stem from their inability to form relationships. The struggle came first, and the resentment followed. They aren’t without sex and relationships because they’re inherently hateful people; rather, the hatred emerges from prolonged frustration and rejection.

        In most cases, I believe the inability to get into relationships is less about character and more about factors like social awkwardness, lack of friends, poor hygiene, unfortunate genetics, spending too much time online or gaming, etc.

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          2 months ago

          These attitudes often stem from their inability to form relationships.

          Because of how they think making them have awful personalities.

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      2 months ago

      Nobody is celibate against their will. They might have difficulty getting into relationships, but they are also choosing not to use the services of sex workers.