> Men are not making enough money for women to spend
> Men are expected to achieve a bunch of things, financial and otherwise
> The tools are simply not there for a lot of men to achieve those things
> Many men cannot meet these impossible-by-design expectations and are ridiculed for “failure” which is out of their control
previous post: https://hilariouschaos.com/post/673?scrollToComments=true
The remedies are pretty simple, from legalizing discrimination against women in school and work (getting rid of the unConstitutional “Civil Rights Act”, the “libertarian” / “independent” solution) so that men will naturally out-compete women, or alternatively make the government give more benefits, privileges, and resources to men (the conservative “authoritarian” solution).
It is doubtful we will see this happen, which means either women will need to lower their expectations in dating (which is also unlikely), or many men and women will be long term single or unable to have families through no fault of their own, and we should talk about how such people ought to cope with such circumstances.
I’d be curious about your thoughts on this post: Is MGTOW a Class Issue? https://hilariouschaos.com/post/745?scrollToComments=true
As per that post, it seems like working class people might have a tough time getting and staying married, and they shouldn’t necessarily blame themselves if things don’t work out.
A person can try to beat odds, we also see outliers like celebrities or wealthy businessmen who still end up divorced.
Another factor for myself is it seems the majority of people have not been prepared to have a “traditional Christian marriage”. They do not have “traditional Christian” beliefs or practices (even if they are “Christian” in name). But there are still people who identify as such.
So I guess I am ok with people marrying, as long as they are aware of the risks and are prepared if things don’t work out.