My hands tend to shake, possibly from excessive masturbation. I recently watched a video where a guy was caught using an electronic male masturbator by a woman and the scene went to a happy ending. Anyways, it got me thinking — if I switch to using a device like that, could it help reduce my hands from shaking? What’s your opinion on electronic toys? Do you think they’re a good alternative?

  • skeezix@lemmy.world
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    8 days ago

    Your hands shake for some other reason which you should have checked out by a doctor. Snappin your carrot doesn’t cause your hands to shake.

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    Other people mentioned the medical stuff, so… Fuck yeah get some toys. I got an autoblower and it has been enjoyable. Make sure you use water based lubricant (depending on the toy, most are silicone). Don’t use silicone lube with silicone toys. Also make sure you keep it clean and dry between storage. Corn starch works for drying powder, if you don’t wanna buy special toy cleaning powder.

    I would look into one with an easy clean up. I saw some toys that has the back open so if you “make a mess” in the toy then it would just shoot out the end.

    Also, fuck the haters. I know most people see men with sex toys as either “gross” or “funny” but I’m the one enjoying myself when they are still hanging on to baggage. Besides Megan Thee Stallion told me that “Everybody talking shit probably sucks anyway.”

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    I mean…for everybody in these comments who are making OP feel stupid for thinking his shakey hands are related to shaking his dick, might I remind you all that theres a whole generation out there that were discouraged from masturbation by saying they’ll go blind, or their palms will get hairy.

    At least this guy is (falsely) seeing a real cause and effect. He jerks it, and his hand keeps jerking. It’s reasonable to think “I shook it too much.”

    That being said, OP, go see a doctor. Because that’s not a thing. It sounds like you might have parkinsons, or some kind of damaged nerves. I’m not a doctor so I can’t say. But there does sound like some major issue here.

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      While your point about myths is valid, I haven’t seen anybody make fun of him.

      Everyone in seeing is just saying that it probably has nothing to do with that, is curious where that thought came from, and is recommending a visit to a doctor

      Unless there were other comments that got mod removed already and I’m not seeing them?

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      Who’s to say he has a medical condition? My hands shake for some time after carrying heavy bags, but the shaking stops after a while. Maybe the guy strains his firearms a lot when he’s masturbating?

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        who’s to say he has a medical condition?

        A doctor

        Maybe he does, maybe he doesn’t.

        Better to have it checked than to let something possibly get worse.

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      Which makes no sense. Everybody should masturbate. The girls who try to hold a pill between their knees are the most likely to need a morning after pill from wearing their knees as earings.

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    If you’re interested in finding out, why don’t you buy one and try for yourself? They’re not that expensive (at least the non-electronic ones)… I hear some people like it. And I mean if you’re not fond of the current situation, you should switch up things and try something different anyways.

    (Edit: I’d get a cheap one, see if I like it and the either throw it in the trash or have learned something and then decide if I want some $250 device with all the bells and whistles and buttplug.io integration. But YMMV on that.)

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    I used to be unable to hold my right hand still in the air without slight tremors, and I noticed how it went away some months after I quit playing this one mmo with excessive clicking. Phlebotomy is so much easier with a calm hand. Maybe the toy would help if it’s hands-free?

    Adding this fun read because I know hands do get numb from holding strongly vibrating things for excessive periods of time: https://www.cdc.gov/niosh/docs/83-110/default.html

    Moreso in your jerking hand, or both? Not that I have any qualifications to answer further – better to check with your doctor how serious it is.