I’m always honest, sometimes I just run out of steam and she gets that.
This. Honest communication is key.
Honesty, 100%. I think deception during sex is a recipe for mental illness.
I tried faking it once, but it was… tricky, for obvious reasons. Since then I don’t bother and I just quit when I know it’s a lost cause. Unfortunately, it’s gotten more and more common as I’ve gotten older (and more out of shape).
Sometimes I’m in a space to finish, sometimes not. Regardless, I enjoy the experience.
Honesty is always the right answer and when those situations have occurred honesty is what I’ve always gone with. Because honesty opens the door for conversation which can bring about understanding (my head was off elsewhere, I’m more tired then I thought I was, etc) which then allows for finding a solution and/or compromising. Plus I feel it’s a good rule of thumb in general to be honest about anything with the person you’re physically intimate with, granted for me there’s no chance of sexual interactions if I don’t feel emotionally safe, so your vantage point may be, and probably is, different.
If I can’t finish I still try to make sure she does, usually by going down on her until she does. I then just communicate with her what was going on with me.
I’m honest about it. Normally my girlfriend will say something and then I’ll agree.
I guess I have never not finished, there has been a couple times she has finished before me and gives me like a courtesy 60 seconds, but when she is done I can definitely feel a difference and I get nervous that I need to finish which makes it hard to finish. In those instances I just usually finish myself off.
