I know this is kind of random. I’ve got a black necklace with a long round pendant on it, and I think I look better topless when I wear it. I’m not sure why.

    • givesomefucks@lemmy.world
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      5 months ago

      I love that the story he went with after was that he would pick up lost chains after fights and wear them so the owner could claim them…

      Like sure, technically possible.

      But also so was the ultimate Debo move. Imagine Mr T whoops your ass, takes your chain, and next weekend he’s wearing it and 50 other chains.

      You just take the L and don’t mention it.

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        I don’t even need to follow the link to know what that’s about - it’s a beautiful story

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        You mean it wasn’t an O.G. did I’m Gonna Get You Sucka lie to me?

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    Irrelevant.

    Do you think that necklace makes you look sexy? Does it give you confidence to wear it out? Great! Confidence is sexy. Having something you do for yourself is sexy. Anyone who falls for you is gunna probably think that necklace is cool either because they are gunna associate it with you and it is gunna make them smile because you obviously like wearing it. Think of the accessory worn by your favorite character - that could be how someone who really likes you reacts to your accessory in the future.

    If someone thinks it’s not their style or thinks it looks dumb if it’s a deal breaker they kinda shallow and you’re better off without… and if they value your feelings they are gunna think your attachment to the thing is cute.

    Embrace the pendant. Life is too short to deny yourself the things you like.

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    It will depend on the person but for me personally I love crazy fashion, my ideal world is where everyone dressed like they were in Jojo’s Bizarre Adventure. So a necklace with a massive gemstone that looks like it contains the souls of a long dead race is ideal.

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    I’m indifferent about jewelry on anybody, male or female. Like, the piece itself can be nice but I don’t ever seem to think it enhances the look of the person, except sometimes earrings. Very occasionally I think it detracts from the look of the person but almost always just neutral.

    You are the arbiter of what looks good on you, though. If you like it, that’s all that matters.

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    5 months ago

    Not particularly, I’m indifferent to necklaces. Can’t really judge, I have both a church necklace and a waistlet.

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    If I find the particular body in question attractive, then jewelry will serve to enhance that experience for me. It accentuates the shapes.

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    welcome to fashion. you can add things to the body that emphasize good stuff, detract from stuff you don’t like, draw the eye in a particular direction, create an illusion, break up an expanse, etc.

    enjoy!

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    It’s really dependable on the person. Like how some guys can pull off a hat and others can’t. Everything from physical characteristics to confidence and maturity effect that. If you like how you look that’s all that matters. Rock the pendant and give someone a reason to see the better view 😉