• Proposal6114@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    4 days ago

    12 ga, not sure if slug or shot.

    Gun was held to my head for 20-30 mins during some gang stupidity involving a family member not wanting to leave a party I was supposed to pick them up from. I left, came back and the place was crawling with police and EMS. The same gun, held by the same guy was used to shoot another person in the face.

    I ended up having to give statements, got subpoenaed, and myself, family, and friends being threatened by same gang for a number of years.

  • Tiefling IRL@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    4 days ago

    Almost went to college for art, decided last minute to do engineering instead. Still ended up getting heavily involved in art later in life because I had the financial freedom from tech to do so

  • superkret@feddit.org
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    4 days ago

    Shortly after getting my driver’s license, I stupidly merged onto a road with a 40 mph speed limit without looking left.
    A car was coming right towards my driver’s side door. The driver of the other car made their brakes squeal (this was before ABS). Right before they would have hit me and probably killed me (this was before airbags), they released their brakes, swerved around me, and kept going.
    It was some really impressive driving, and it likely saved my life.

  • Scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech
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    3 days ago

    High school girlfriend was a bit intense and told me she wanted me to marry her and that she wanted children. I was 16 at the time. I was terrified by that, because you know, 16, and she got mad at my nervousness. She dumped me a week later and wouldn’t you know it, married less than a year out of high school with now 3 kids.

    I went on to get my degree, move far far away, get a much better job and a much better partner. I think back to who I would have been if teenage me had let myself be pressured into that. Small town, working at the gas station or pizza joint, supporting 3 kids…

  • Aceticon@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    As an EU immigrant, left the UK after the Leave vote but before Brexit and Covid.

    It’s not a bullet but more like a whole lot of bullets.

    Mind you, most of it was entirely predictable back then.

  • Qkall@lemmy.ml
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    4 days ago

    So back when my career was absolute shit, there was this small tech group within the company. I had been on a few projects for them and they really kept trying to get me to join. I strongly considered it but I noticed a trend of the folks on the team being overworked and underappreciated… And I would have to relocate. I debated for a week and finally decided that my sister was about to have kids and I wanted to be involved. Fast forward like a month or two after I turned them down… Our company canned the entire group. I now have a really good position and am quite happy.

    The grass isn’t always greener and all that…