jointhefediverse.net seems to be a commonly linked resource for directing people to join the Fediverse.

Curiously, it does not list Lemmy under the list of Reddit alternatives. Their GitHub README explains why.

Previous relevant discussion: https://lemmy.ml/post/78808

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    This is so stupid. Did everyone stop using ballpoint pens because the inventor was a nazi? No.

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        But by buying a tesla youre giving elon money and promoting his product which is much more closely tied to his views than lemmy is to the devs views.

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        Would you drive a Ford? Because you should read up on Henry Ford’s beliefs if so.

        How about BMW? Wanna talk about their history? Actually, give me a car company you like, and we’ll just dig into that one.

        I wouldn’t drive a Tesla because they’re shitty cars.

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          Well, at least pens don’t have a proprietary algorithm by said nazi to make it not function when you want to write something that is not nazi propaganda, unlike things like Twitter, where the far-right is being boosted.

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            at least pens don’t have a proprietary algorithm by said nazi to make it not function when you want to write something that is not nazi propaganda

            Don’t give them ideas.

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    The reasoning they give is ludicrous. That’s idiotic as saying because someone put up a pedophile website, Apache is the devil. Even if Apache were built by NAMBLA, if it’s opensource and doesn’t randomly insert pictures of naked kids into your website, how does the developer matter to the product?

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    Could you, like, maybe post the explanation we’re supposed to be discussing for context instead of making us go search for it?

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    Lemmy was removed due to:

    • reports of how the developers handle certain types of content (post removed, view an incomplete archive)
    • the behavior of its creator
    • how the sotware itself handles users’ privacy.

    All valid concerns.

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      No, they’re not.

      how the developers handle certain types of content

      Doesn’t matter if you stay away from .ml.

      the behavior of its creator

      Kind of valid, but open source and open license negates a lot of that.

      how the sotware itself handles users’ privacy.

      You think anything else on the Fediverse is better? When you post something publicly, it’s public. Doesn’t really matter what the software does. If you don’t have End to End encryption, it’s not private.

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        Doesn’t matter if you stay away from .ml.

        And they are. They have delisted Lemmy as a recommendation.

        Kind of valid, but open source and open license negates a lot of that.

        It’s really bad PR. I don’t recommend Lemmy to people because of this shit.

        You think anything else on the Fediverse is better?

        If their servers delete content you want deleted, yes.

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          If their servers delete content you want deleted, yes.

          It’s the case for Lemmy

          Unfortunately there was some miscommunication in this issue and we failed to get to the root cause. In fact the Lemmy backend has an option to delete all content when an account is deleted. This used to be the default behaviour but was changed in 0.19 so you need to set a parameter delete_content. We failed to add a checkbox for this parameter to lemmy-ui.

          However the checkbox is added now in #2385 and will be included in the next Lemmy release. Other frontends and clients may also need to adjust the delete_account api call.

          https://github.com/LemmyNet/lemmy-ui/issues/2384#issuecomment-1978857727

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      Point 1 and 2 really need to be addressed.

      It would be so much better if lemmy wasn’t developed by genocide white-washing tankies.

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      I hate it when people try to gatekeep like this. I don’t need to be handheld. If there’s a Fediverse alternative to something and it mostly works, it should be on the website. Anything less is not useful at best.

      Edit: I say this as someone who has historically criticized the behavior of the devs as well as multiple Lemmy communities BTW.

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        I agree 100% with this. The developers or the operators of lemmy.ml may be assholes, but the beauty of decentralization is I can simply not use their instance. I do not. Thus, while a warning label is necessary, I think more good is done by making people aware of the alternative to Reddit than by sweeping the whole thing under the rug.

        As for user privacy, I’m not sure Lemmy is any worse than any other Fediverse app. There were a couple of bad things like being unable to delete a hosted image, but that has been fixed. Once again, warning label, not rug sweep.

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        I mean the person maintaining this site just chose to not recommend it themself based on valid concerns. Nothing is stopping you from looking into lemmy and using it anyways.

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      To me the first one is an instance problem (ml, hexbear?), and not a lemmy problem. It has looked like they’ve been trying to separate the two as much as possible.

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      What is the issue with user privacy? These do not sound like valid concerns to me.

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      The linked post given on the second point is a bit flimsy. It’s basically saying that if you use evidence published by a person with shitty views, you must have them too. To me, that’s absurd as claiming that referencing FBI statistics makes someone a federal agent.

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      These concerns, and more, are why just today, during a conversation with some friends looking to get off traditional social media, I advised them to join pixelfed, peer tube, mastodon, and loops, but suggested they strictly avoid Lemmy.

      The communities aren’t right for anyone who isn’t seeking something exactly like Lemmy or leftie-Reddit-lite. I don’t even really like it here all that much anymore. Not the content; the interactions… across all my accounts… even joining “nicer” spaces is not a particularly nice or pleasant experience, plus the more interested is a woman, and Lemmy is a horrible sausagefest echo chamber not at all suited to a normal average woman person who isn’t techie. I’m techie, so I’m used to the vibe, but for your average cis-woman, Lemmy is a very very bad fit.

      Bring on the downvotes if you like (the echo-chamber anti-voice sentiment is part of why people shouldn’t be recommended this platform, after all) but these are legit concerns for people who may want to join, and those of us already here can and do steer people elsewhere as a result.

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        Lemmy is a horrible sausagefest echo chamber not at all suited to a normal average woman person who isn’t techie.

        Far be it from me to point out this is exactly how reddit started.

        The foundational promise of lemmy and the fediverse writ large is freedom from proprietary software and closed-protocols; the kind of people who are going to be interested in seeking out those types of alternatives are going to gravitate toward techy men.

        It takes time for new social media sites to fan outward from their initial adopters, that’s just how it goes.

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        Same honestly. I never discussed politics on Reddit, but it’s all the content that’s here. Partly why I don’t recommend it to anyone i know who uses Reddit. Most content just isn’t normie-friendly here.

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          It’s so depressing and aggressive, honestly. I can’t do that to my friends who don’t do that already.

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            Have you been on Reddit lately? It’s insanely depressing and aggressive, too. Even more so in my opinion. I used to be reddit addicted but it’s so bot infested, mean-spirited, and kind of vapid and shallow that I get bored after the first page or two. Lemmy still has a long way to go but I’ve been having more fun and interesting conversations on here.

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        First link is completely unviewable for me on mobile, the entire thread is a chain of posts that say “Please don’t use Lemmy :( Human rights, oppression” with a show more button that doesn’t work, and the original thread is gone. Could you(/someone) paste what it says? I’d try on desktop but our internet has been out since the fires started in LA

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          Entire thread, all from the same user:

          Post 1

          Please don’t use Lemmy :( Human rights, oppression

          Human rights mean a lot to me. I joined the Fediverse to make the world a nicer place. My efforts are pathetically small, but hopefully make at least a tiny difference.

          I used to recommend Lemmy very strongly, thought the people who develop it were nice folks interested in making the world better too.

          However, recent discussions with the developers has changed my mind completely.

          I am very suspicious about their motivations now.

          1/6

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          Please don’t use Lemmy :( Human rights, oppression

          Lemmy’s developers say “we are strictly against all forms of oppression (including genocide), and dont allow anything that promotes or supports oppression” and “We definitely are very staunchly against bigotry or persecution of minorities, and are strict about banning that”.

          This is difficult to fully reconcile with what actually happens on the developers’ own instance, and those they feature.

          2/6

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          Please don’t use Lemmy :( Human rights, oppression

          The problem here isn’t Lemmy’s politics, but their attitude to threads about human rights violations.

          On the face of it, the developers’ main Lemmy instance has lots of uncontroversial general interest threads, but when you start digging on controversial topics a worrying pattern emerges.

          The worrying posts are very reminiscent of the way certain churches have handled priest abuse claims: denial.

          3/6

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          Please don’t use Lemmy :( Human rights, oppression

          There’s threads denyng the oppression of Uyghur muslims (this oppression has been well documented by NGOs, for example: https://www.amnesty.org.uk/actions/help-end-repression-uyghurs-china).

          Other posts deny that North Korea is oppressive.

          Meanwhile, another suggests celebrating Stalin’s birthday as he was such a great guy.

          (Incidentally, I have receipts, DM me if you want to see them for yourself.)

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          Please don’t use Lemmy :( Human rights, oppression

          You get the picture.

          These posts were on the main Lemmy instance, as featured on the official Lemmy website.

          Over the past few days I have tried to engage with Lemmy about these posts in private, as I was sure it must be a misunderstanding.

          However, Lemmy said that “none of the posts you linked are against our rules”, and refused to even discuss the actual issues because “this format is not conducive to political disagreements”.

          5/6

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          Please don’t use Lemmy :( Human rights, oppression

          I deeply regret ever having publicised Lemmy. I’m really sorry.

          Don’t use Lemmy.

          For whatever my opinion is worth any more, I would now recommend that people cancel their donations to Lemmy, stay as far away from Lemmy as possible, and donate to another Fediverse project instead.

          I was wondering whether to stay quiet, but it seemed better to speak up and say something

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          Please don’t use Lemmy :( Human rights, oppression

          p.s. I put the wrong link for Amnesty, the Uyghur report is here:

          https://www.amnesty.org/en/documents/asa17/4137/2021/ug/

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          Please don’t use Lemmy :( Human rights, oppression

          p.p.s. Someone has pointed out that lemmy.ml (the official Lemmy instance) resolves to the same IP address as lemmygrad.ml (the instance that contains the most disturbing material).

          Lemmy.ml also federates with lemmygrad, and the devs advertise lemmygrad on their “join lemmy” site.

          Do the Lemmy developers themselves run the lemmygrad.ml site? (Its main logo is a tank, incidentally.)

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          Please don’t use Lemmy :( Human rights, oppression

          p.p.p.s. There was an older “reddit for the Fediverse” project called Prismo which had some working instances at one point.

          Perhaps someone could resurrect it, to provide an alternative to Lemmy?

          https://gitlab.com/prismosuite/prismo

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    “I’m gonna stop using GNU/Linux because I don’t like Richard Stallman”

    It’s valid to dislike the devs (I disagree, I’ve found them nothing but courteous, and have read their posts with interest), but it’s ridiculous to exclude their software from this list.

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    It’s almost certainly because of the tankie factory that is .ml and the fact that it’s admins are all hard core tankies (including the main dev! And ofc the whole infamous Nutomic transphobe incident)

    Coupled with the fact that a few of the biggest communities are on .ml does not bode well.

    That’s why I keep calling for a general boycott against posting content or comments on .ml communities.

    .ml doesn’t want growth, they want a tankie echo chamber, if anybody wants to actually see Lemmy grow at a healthy pace it starts with shuning the hostile tankies and their instances.

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        Generally, those who praise authoritarian regimes who mask, or attempt to, themselves in the cloak of communism/socialism e.g. China or Russia and are SUPER anti-West (Parroting views of the China Russian regime)

        Which comes with a whole host of shit takes, like Russia being justified in their invasion or even denying Tiennamen Square and definitely denying the China Uyghur genocide

        Basically, they’ve gone so far left they’ve circled back into Right-wing authoritarianism

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      I’ve said it before, but I joined this instance when Reddit closed the api and the only time I see “tankie” stuff is when someone mentions how rampant it is on this instance, but not on the instance itself. I guess I subscribe to non-tankie content (all across the fediverse and not only this instance).

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      Make your own instance and defederate .ml or any of the other instances you hate. Go nuts! Show us how it’s done.

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      That’s why I keep calling for a general boycott against posting content or comments on .ml communities.

      I mean…I joined that boycott months ago, and I don’t think I’ve ever seen you before this moment.

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        Bro. I just posted a meme about it 3 days ago

        And I post from time to time about it, enough that some of the more prominent .ml users have started to take notice lmao

        I’ve also been consistently for weeks now cross-posting a ton of fresh (non-tankie anyways) content to the relevant non-.ml communities, it’s like the bulk of my posts rn lol

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    Nutomic and Dessalines may be tankies, but they’re our tankies

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    It’s just a random person that registered a domain. Be the change you want to see and make your own?

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    I wrote this before

    I spotted Dessalines posted literal propaganda on some community I joined

    gotta be honest that does not sit well with me

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      Lemmy.world has literal propaganda, too.

      They posted a Radio Free Asia article and banned anyone who pointed out it’s a government run CIA propaganda op. Even redditors know that’s propaganda lol.

      It’s everywhere, you can’t avoid it, you just have to learn to be discerning, media critical, and look into sources.

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      Yep. And note how the other mods/admins are almost always found commenting alongside them.

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    It has mbin and piefed on the list, so it’s not harming the network at all. If anything it’s more healthy with more platforms rather than just ml and world. It’s one site directing people to the fedi, I’m not butthurt about it

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      Yes, that’s quite old, not sure why OP is bringing this up now.

      Most of the people here know about the Lemmy devs political stances. Quite a few people are waiting for Piefed and Mbin to catch up. Nothing new to see here.

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        I don’t know. I just came across it yesterday, and I thought it’d be something interesting to share.

        It was explained in the post’s body actually:

        Curiously, it does not list Lemmy under the list of Reddit alternatives.

        Most of the people here know about the Lemmy devs political stances.

        Seeing as I’ve only started using Lemmy less than a month ago, I’ve only just very recently started realizing that.

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          It’s okay, I see your account is quite new, so no worries.

          As I said, those issues are known, you can have a look at !yepowertrippinbastards@lemmy.dbzer0.com for posts complaining about power tripping mods, be it lemmy.ml or elsewhere.

          The key takeaway is that even with its flaws, Lemmy is the biggest Reddit alternative by far (Discuit has less than 200 weekly active posters, Lemmy has 42000). If there would have been a better alternative people would probably have moved there, but there wasn’t (and still isn’t) any, so here we are

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          This was like me months ago. A lot of people here take the mentality of “Well I know about it, so it MUST be common knowledge that everybody knows!”

          Completely forgetting that there are 8 billion people on the planet, and something like 65k people on lemmy. Statistically speaking, this means basically nobody in the entire planet knows about lemmy, or the issues with lemmy.ml.

          So for every NEW user, this is ALWAYS new info. It’s not like facebook where I don’t have an account, but already know zuck’s a massive piece of shit.

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        Block .ml

        Block me

        Who cares how others use Lemmy? I don’t. Feel free to make another feud post this week. Stick it to us champ!

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          Who cares how others use Lemmy? I don’t.

          I do, because I would like Lemmy to reach 100k monthly active users, so that other posters can join communities I keep alive. Lemmy.ml reputation is detrimental to this.

          On the other hand, I respect the Lemmy devs as developers, just not as admins.

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      So far I haven’t found a better alternative. Lemmy communities are already much smaller than their Reddit counterparts.

      Personally, I don’t plan to venture into even more remote locations. It defeats the community part of it…

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        Sounds simple right? But unfortunately several users seem to have difficulty in blocking .ml and continue to complain about us.

        Don’t worry yall, I got your backs.


        Welcome to a tutorial on how to block .ml on your personal account.

        In the top right corner of the top of the page, there are 3 horizontal white bars. Click it.

        This will open up a drop down menu. At the bottom of that menu, you will see your username. Click it.

        This will open another drop down menu with 3 options. Click “Settings”.

        At the top of your screen you will see 2 tabs. Click the one that says “Blocks”.

        Here you will see “Block user” “Block community” and “Block instance”. Click the down arrow below “Block instance”.

        This will open up a search bar. Type “lemmy.ml” and click it after it shows up.

        That’s it! You’ve blocked .ml and will never see content from the instance. Now you don’t need to make a feud post every day complaining about .ml and other instances you disapprove of. Think of all the time you will save!

        But wait, we aren’t done yet in this menu. Click the down arrow under “Block user”. Now type “UltraGiGaGigantic” Make sure you select my .ml account as the other ones I no longer use. Thanks, appreciate it.